Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Beautiful Flowers

I am probably one of the only girls in the world that doesn't "HAVE"  to have flowers or "GIFTS" given to me on a regular basis from my husband to show me his love..... It was actually my lowest number on my Love Language test a couple years ago!!!  This last weekend was quite eventfull, I should say Sunday was eventful..... a good friend of mine called to let me know some disturbing things happened at birthday party my son was at Saturday night.  I went and picked Jayden up and we drove around our small town and I softly asked him to tell me all that happened..........

PEOPLE SAY WE LIVE A PERFECT LIFE............ We DoN't!!!!!!!!!! 

Jayden was involved in texting a girl from there school in the same grade and Jayden was threatened by a couple kids that he would be beat up if he did not text a certain phrase............
 I am SO PROUD and I let Jayden know this that he came out and was completely honest with what he put and what all had happened......
I CRIED telling myself and Brian that that is not who our son is and I just want my family back.  Our weekends have been crazy and not enough family time........
Jayden is taking a break from a few of the boys that were involved and a few he will longer be able to go to there house or play with there kids unless they are over at our house were I can be the nosy mom I do and do not want to be....................
I think..... actually I know and I see it that my parenting is A LOT different then some other moms and I don't put up with ugly words in my house and being sooo involved with girls is NOT what I encourage my 9 year old. and by the Grace of God I will shelter my son till it's time he has knowledge at the right age!!!!
soooooo........................  I choose to put that all behind and the choices we have made to exclude some unhealthy people from our lives is just what we need to do to protect our children.......................
Brian brought me these flowers and it made my crummy Sunday and Monday into a positive bright lesson Jayden learned and also as a parent how we were able to handle the whole situation :)))))))

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